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My WorksThe Existential Expedition
The program I created for staff at the Seattle Cancer Care Alliance to help them deal with life, dying, death, and spirituality. An article on this group, "Programmatic Staff Care in an Outpatient Setting" was published in The Journal of Pastoral Care, Vol. 59, No. 3, Fall 2005. Existential Expedition • To build community • To support and learn from one another • To gain new perspectives The Plan • A program of three sessions designed to deepen our understanding of critical life issues: 1) life's meaning, 2) spirituality, 3) death and grief. The Rationale • Discussion of sensitive issues around spirituality, death and dying will not only help us clarify our own beliefs, but also help us to be more comfortable talking with patients about these issues. • Exploring questions about our own underlying beliefs and assumptions can bring about an awareness of how and why we feel what we do when stressed. Choice follows awareness. Ground Rules • Speak from the heart. • Listen from the heart. • Treat everyone and their stories/ • Confidentiality: no private, personal information will be repeated outside the group. Structure • Small groups of 6-8 people. • Meet for two hours. • Commit to meeting 3 times. • Open with a check-in. • Share answers in the Way of Council. Each person answers all the questions in the session without interruption. Everyone speaks once before anyone speaks again. • Discussion of job stress and how the answers to the questions impact the job stress issues raised. (e.g., if you were raised to believe that life should be smooth and easy, it may be difficult to deal with crises in life.) Session 1: Life on Earth 1) In my family of origin, what were the beliefs (spoken or unspoken) about pain and difficulties in life? 2) What was your childhood dream of adulthood and how does that connect to what you are doing now? 3) What motivated/ Session 2: Spirituality 1) With what spiritual beliefs were you raised and what do you believe now? 2) How do you integrate your beliefs into your every day life? 3) How do you nurture your spiritual life? Session 3: Dying and Death 1) What do you believe happens when you die? 2) Is death the worst thing that can happen? Why or why not? 3) Is cancer the worse kind of death? Why or why not? 4) How would you like to die? i.e. disease, house fire, murder, drowning, car accident, heart attack, shark attack, terrorist attack, poison mushrooms. Note: I handed out optional readings a week before each session, just to get people thinking about the subject. At the last session I handed out a bibliography which you can download. Feel free to add your own sources. |
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